VACANCY:
GURUSHIP
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Females need not apply -
By Abu Adeeba
INTRODUCTION
In theory, there is no difference
between theory and practice.
But, in practice, there is.
Jan L. A. Van de Snepscheut
Dutch-American computer scientist and educator
(1953 - 1994)
Although the implementation gap that exists between the
theory and practice of gender equality vis-á-vis the
conferring of Guruship has been raised and discussed by Sikh
apologists, we intend to examine some of the more serious
academic discourse forwarded in defence of this apparent
anomaly.
Our contention is that the reasons and excuses delineated by
Sikh scholars and thinkers in their attempted pursuit to
sustain and protect this cherished ideal of gender equality
amounts to muddled and inconsistent explanations.
In actual fact, any attempt at defending this
chimerical ideal of "blind
equality" will invariably point to the insurmountable gap
that exists between the theory of gender equality and its
practice vis-á-vis Guruship because, in essence, it
is easy to advocate, but impossible to actualise due to its
impracticability.
However, this subject is directly related to something so
much more profound when it comes to God's proven Truth, and
that is: truth-living. If the 10 Gurus, and thus Sikhism,
really were champions and pioneers of gender equality, then
how far were they willing to go to prove this on a practical
level? To put it more succinctly: did they practice what
they preached?
Hence, in this regard, Dr Inder Jit Singh, professor and
co-ordinator of anatomy at New York University, poses a
two-fold question that is very pertinent to the subject of
discussion:
When we look at the place
of women in Sikhism, two questions come to mind. Has there
been a consistent theological teaching on this matter in
Sikhism? Secondly, what does history teach us about our
practices?
ORTHOPRAXICAL LIP SERVICE
We have, in fact, two kinds of morality side by side:
one which we preach but do not practice,
and another which we practice but seldom preach.
Bertrand Russell
British author, mathematician, & philosopher (1872 - 1970)
The problem that has dogged Sikhs for so long in this regard
is due to them having committed a cardinal mistake in their
claim to Truth; a mistake that invariably results in a
backlash against what is being espoused; and that is:
putting all your eggs into one basket.
For many of them, gender does not exist; it is a social
construct that stops people from giving women absolute equal
rights and opportunity. The ones who taught and established
this ideal, we are told, are their beau ideal: the 10 Gurus.
We are further told that they were the complete embodiment
of "truth-living". They abhorred and denounced what they saw
as spiritual-less, mechanised routines of worship, such as,
fasting, the Muslims five daily prayers, circumcision, etc.,
if the people carrying out these rituals were not doing so
out of sincerity to their Lord. Unlike the Gurus, these
people were not properly implementing what they preached.
In almost all major faiths, it is usually part of the
examination of a preacher's character to determine whether
what is being preached is being put into practice. And it is
customarily and theologically interpreted to be a character
blemish if a preacher has failed in this respect. Often such
a person acquires notoriety for merely paying lip service:
LIP SERVICE
Insincere support or respect expressed but not put into
practice.
(bold ours)
And what is worse is if said person has the means and
ability to actualise a "verbal expression of agreement or
allegiance". In this case, such espousals would be seen as
hollow words or empty speech.
This could even be construed as hypocrisy; though we
acknowledge that the word hypocrisy, as Samuel Johnson (d.
1784) noted, can be misused:
Nothing is more unjust, however common, than to charge with
hypocrisy him that expresses zeal for those virtues which
he neglects to practice; since he may be sincerely
convinced of the advantages of conquering his passions,
without having yet obtained the victory, as a man may be
confident of the advantages of a voyage, or a journey,
without having courage or industry to undertake it, and may
honestly recommend to others, those attempts which he
neglects himself.
(bold ours)
However, this excuse may be true in relation to the laity,
but certainly cannot, or should not, be applicable to a
Prophet/ Messenger/ Guru who is said to have been appointed
by God to be an absolute paragon of moral virtue. After
being appointed to this role, such practitioners are,
presumably, elevated to an unparalleled level of civil and
social responsibility which demands of them the highest
levels of moral and ethical standards of practice.
Indeed, this is true for all of the 144,000 Prophets and
Messengers sent by Allaah to their respective people, over
the long course of human history, in the Islamic tradition.
This was summed up perfectly by one of the great scholars
from the companions of Prophet Muhammad (upon whom be peace
and blessings of Allaah), Ibn Abbas, who said:
A man went to Ibn 'Abbas
radiAllaahu 'anhu and said, "O Ibn 'Abbas, I
want to enjoin people to do good and forbid them from doing
evil." Ibn 'Abbas said, "And have you reached that level?" He said,
"I hope that that is so." He said, "If you do not
fear to be exposed by three verses of Allah's Book, then do
so." The man asked, "And what are they?" He mentioned this
verse:
Enjoin you Al-Birr (piety and righteousness and each and
every act of obedience to Allah) on the people and you
forget (to practise it) yourselves." (Baqarah 2:44)
And then asked, "Have you applied the implications of this
verse?" He said, "No." Ibn 'Abbas then mentioned the second
verse:
O you who believe! Why do you say that which you do not do?
Most hateful it is with Allah that you say that which you do
not do. (As-Saff 61:2-3)
After that he asked, "Have you applied the implications of
this verse?" He said, "No." He then mentioned the third
verse regarding Shu'aib
alayhi salaam:
"I wish not, in contradiction to you, to do that which I
forbid you." (Hud 11:88)
And then he asked, "Have you applied the implications of
this verse? He said, "No." Ibn 'Abbas said, "THEN BEGIN
WITH YOURSELF."
(bold, capitals ours)
SubhanAllah
(Glorified and Perfect is Allaah above all possible defects
and deficiencies)! Begin, he taught, by firstly practicing
what you intend to preach.
Let us say, for arguments sake, that the 10 Gurus taught
gender equality, this brings us to the all important second
question posed by Dr I. J. Singh: "What does history teach
us about our practices?" More specifically and relevantly:
What does history teach us about the Gurus' practices?
A PRACTICAL HYPOCRISY
The answer to the preceding question is that there were no
female Sikh Gurus. This should lead to the aforementioned
problem of lip service and empty rhetoric; but, for some, it
is not a problem, including Dr I. J. Singh, who states:
Yet people ask, if women were so equal in Sikh teaching, how
is it that none of the ten Gurus was a woman? Why is it that
when Guru Gobind Singh ordained the Khalsa, none of the
first five Sikhs who voluntarily offered their heads was a
woman?
Such questions are seen by him to be utterly foolish:
I find such reasoning regressive at best, if not asinine.
It is an extraordinary conclusion considering the
ramifications we have already highlighted in the previous
chapter.
Yet, the reasoning is not so asinine as to prevent the Sikh
common folks from asking and debating amongst themselves the
apparent clash between theory and practice, as "Parminder
Kaur" questions on a prominent Sikh internet forum:
I was in discussion with some sikh members and a young girl
asked me this question. "Why are there no women Gurus, if
Sikhism treats men/women equally?"
To which "Mr. 5ingh" responds:
It is an excellent question which left me speechless too.
There is also the not so asinine issue of whether a "woman
[can] be one of the Panj Piyara's?"; a question
SikhWomen.com attempts to answer on its website.
This too ties in with the topic of discussion because not
only were females overlooked for Guruship, but they were
likewise ignored, despite a sizeable contingent present,
during the initiation ceremony for choosing the first batch
of Panj Pyarai of the Khalsa by the final Guru,
Gobind Singh. We will come to discuss this later,
insha'Allaah (God Willing).
In order to explain away this conspicuous gap between theory
and practice vis-á-vis the 10 Gurus, two general
approaches are adopted by the apologists:
1) The early historical precedence of women being given
the same roles to fulfil as men.
2) The necessity of taking into account the
socio-cultural/ political milieu of that period.
A tiny example in regards to the first approach can be
gleaned from SikhWomen.com, which boasts:
Sikhism is unique in recognizing unequivocal equality for
all human beings and specifically for both men and women.
Among equality of all human beings, fundamental aspects of
Sikh theology include implicit gender equality and
independence for women.
... Sikhism advocates active and equal participation in
congregation, academics, healthcare, military among other
aspects of society.
Likewise, the apologetics site, Project Naad says:
Not withstanding the absence of the names of important Sikh
women in Sikh history, it is amply clear that the Gurus'
mothers, wives, sisters and daughters were active
participants in the Sikh movement.
As for the second approach, in response to Jakobsh's "valid
point": "Yet if women and men are inherently equal in Sikh
tradition in terms of roles and status, why are they not
given similar representation in the pages of Sikh history?",
Project Naad proposes:
To begin with, a historian must study the environment that
shaped the history of Sikhs. The history of any people is
the product of the influences of the environment and so the
following factors must be considered.
...The Sikh movement developed in a very corrosive patriarchal
culture, having to deal with both Hindu and Muslim
patriarchal values. So this would limit the roles that women
could assume such as female Gurus.
This approach, rather than providing a sound explanation,
instead only succeeds in opening up a can of worms which
serves as proof against these apologists. The participation
of some women alongside their male counterparts in the early
Sikh community in actual fact negates the appeal to the
socio-cultural setting of this period; and this is what we
are going to examine in the following chapter.
EXAMINING THE FACTS
Many Sikhs proudly proclaim that "Sikh history is riddled
with famous women providing leadership in military
campaigns".
In defence of Guru Gobind Singh, Mai Bhago, is said to have
repelled a pursuing Mughal force in a "fiercely fought
battle".
Women of a similar calibre were just as capable as men in
administering the affairs of the quasi Sikh provinces under
Mughal rule at the time. All this is, we are told, in
keeping with Sikhi injunctions:
Guru Nanak has fixed specific duties and responsibilities of
the religious life. The first is of accepting equality
between man and woman. Guru Nanak clearly states, "Why
downgrade woman, when without woman there would be none",
and "It is she who gives birth to great persons." When the
Third Guru created manjis or districts of religious
administration, women were appointed in charge of some of
them.
In fact, according to Sikh historian Baldev Singh, these
"women headed some of the twenty-two manjis
(dioceses) set up by Guru Amar Das".B. Singh reminds us that "Guru
Hargobind and Guru Gobind Singh were very young when they
assumed Guruship... [while] Guru Har Krishan was a mere child
of five". But:
What was the major influence on these Gurus at that very
critical period in Sikh history...? The answer, of course, is
the influence of their mothers: Mata Ganga, Mata Gujri and
Mata Krishan Kaur, respectively.
Further, it was Mata Sundri (Jito) - wife of Guru Gobind
Singh - who guided the Sikh community through a very
difficult period of external repression and internal
divisions after her husband's death - about forty years
(1708-1747 C.E.), longer than any of the nine Gurus
subsequent to Guru Nanak.
In contradistinction to this, however, and as we mentioned
above, it is reasoned that the socio-cultural norms of the
day need to be taken into consideration when attempting to
tackle this all important topic.
According to Dr I. J. Singh:
In exploring some baffling matters of Sikh history, keep in
mind that contemporaneous events are a different matter.
When we look at happenings of long ago, we need to remember
that we must not judge yesterday's conduct by today's
standards. One does not measure the past by the yardstick of
today... One cannot ignore the cultural and societal context
of the times when we sit in judgment of history.
A similar reason is given by Gurpreet of SikhWomen.com in
answer to a question over why "no women can become one of
the Panj Pyare". After flippantly claiming how the
questioner "makes me realize how much more we need to
educate our generation", she responds:
When we use a historical event as an example, then in all
fairness we need to evaluate the social fabric of the time.
Although this seems to be a rationally sensible approach, it
really does not provide a credible reason as to why the 10
Gurus failed to put their teachings into practice in order
to set that important historical precedence.
Is the allusion here that the social situation and cultural
environment was non-conducive and unsuitable for the appointment
of a female Guru? This is certainly a reason that Dr. I. J.
Singh prefers in his attempt to explain away Guru Gobind
Singh's final act in failing to include a female during the
formation of the Khalsa:
History tells us that perhaps 80,000 Sikhs attended the
convention called by Guru Gobind Singh in 1699 when the
Khalsa was ordained. Many, if not nearly half, must have
been women.... perhaps many of those women were busy with
their squabbling children. Perhaps they never heard the
dramatic call by Guru Gobind Singh; there were no sound
systems then. Many of them might have been busy with
langar if 80,000 had to be fed. Given these
preoccupations and considering the Indian society of which
they were the products, many of them might have thought it
more prudent to leave such matters to their men,
particularly if it was going to involve fighting and battles.
(bold ours)
But the good Doctor cannot have his cake and eat it too. It
is clearly a self-defeating argument to suggest that the
Gurus approved of sword wielding-horse riding women fighting
alongside them in battles, as well as those who managed
high-level leadership roles, but found them deficient on
account of their sex vis-á-vis Guruship. Especially
when Dr I. J. Singh contradictorily states:
In Sikh history, women have led armies into battle.
Either these women had what it took or they did not. Surely
there must have been at least one woman with the all round
credentials to be chosen, if only to uphold what so many
Sikhs incessantly repeat: gender equality.
THE PANJ PIYARAI
Dr I. J. Singh's aforementioned reasoning is, of course,
quite farfetched, conjectural, and certainly contradictory
when seen in the larger context of things. Even if we were
to accept the incredulous assumptions that it takes "nearly"
half, i.e. 40,000 women, to feed the many hungry mouths,
while attending to the squabbling children; and that many of
them did not hear Gobind Singh's call at that historically
defining moment, are we to blame them or their Satguru in
the grand scheme of things? If this was the great
epoch-defining ceremony in Sikh history - the formation of
the Khalsa - you would expect every ear to attentively bear
witness to such an important chapter.
Even if every single woman, including the warrior class or
those sitting over their 'manjis', were not paying
attention, one would expect the Guru to make certain of
their undivided attention. Better still, instead of asking
for volunteers, why not, in the spirit of gender equality,
appoint three men and three women to be the Khalsa's chai
pyarai (six beloved)?
And Gurpreet's rationalisation on SikhWomen.com is equally
absurd. She too appeals to the historical "norm of the time"
claiming that "social science is at play here". She further
asks:
Were women back then encouraged to volunteer for tasks like
there [sic] that were usually taken up on [sic] by men?
What of the question of children? Were they encouraged back
then to volunteer for tasks that were usually taken up by
men?" The inexplicable rationale that materialises in this
context can only lead one to the conclusion that the
appointment of young children as Gurus to lead the Sikh
community, viz. the eighth Guru Har Krishan at a
tender age of five
and Guru Gobind Singh at the age of
nine,
respectively, was acceptable, but not
women. Why is the perceived gender role of women
vis-á-vis the socio-cultural milieu not raised in
regards to the safety of a young child? The implications
borne out of this bizarre reasoning are that either a young
child's safety is less of a concern than that of a woman's
or that a child is better equipped to take on and fulfil the
role of Guruship than one of those empowered and fearless
female Kaurs.
Gurpreet then anachronistically appeals to Guru Nanak as one
who "defied the norm of the day in granting women equal
rights. That is why he was a pioneer, a visionary, a person
of God to whom God's word was revealed". Not only had Nanak
passed away by then, but he too had failed to appoint a
female Guru.
She then disjointedly reasons:
At that time no children or elderly volunteered either. So
does that mean that they did not have the courage? How many
other factors are we going to come up with to discriminate
against each other? So I guess age should be a factor in
picking our Panj Piare. Oh wait, did any vegetarians
volunteer? Did any Sushi lovers volunteer? Not to humor
anyone, but where does this end?
It ends with us asking the simple question of why all 10
Gurus failed to take the initiative themselves to apply what
they were preaching vis-á-vis the most important
appointment in Sikhism, a move that would have undoubtedly
epitomised the true essence and actualisation of gender
equality: Guruship?
Gurpreet then misses the forest for the trees:
Your comment defies the basic principles of equality. We
need to reflect on history and think about why our Guru's
indeed encouraged us to defy the beleifs [sic] of
that time.
(bold ours)
Unfortunately for her, she might have, but her 10 Gurus did
not.
Before we move on to examine the implications of this
failure, it will be beneficial if we tackled a few of the
more fanciful and farfetched reasons forwarded by the laity.
One such example was given by a one Manvir Singh Khalsaon SikhNet's discussion forum where
he says that "it just so happens" that "after the 3rd Guru
passing on Guruship to 4th Guru all following Guruship
remained within the family. THere is a sakhi that states it
was the request of one of the daughter's of the 3rd Guru.
The fact is that All of the Guru's after the 4th Guru had
only Son's [sic]."
But another member, Serjinder Singh, quotes the
"Encyclopaedia of Sikhism, Ed. Harbans Singh, Punjabi
University Patiala (article by Gurnek Singh)" which
highlights the falsity of the claim that all Gurus
subsequent to the fourth only had sons:
"Bibi Viro born 1615 was daughter of Guru Hargobind ji and
Mata Damodari at Amritsar on 11 July 1615. She was married
to Bhai Sadhu, son of Bhai Dharma a Khosla Khatri of village
Mall."
Similarly sixth Guru ji Har Rai had a daughter Rup Kaur, the
entry in Encylopaedia Of Sikhism (article by Bhagat Singh)
above is as follows:
"Bibi Rup Kaur commonly believed to be the adopted daughter
of Guru Har Rai, was according to Bhatt Vhai (Talaunda), his
real daughter born to Mata Sulakhani on 8 April 1649. She
was married on 3 December 1662, to Khem Karan, son of Bhai
Per Mall, a Dhussa Khatri of Pasroor in present day district
of Sialkot(now in Pakistan). The young couple, however,
settled at Kiratpur itself in the house now known as
Gurdwara Manji Sahib, where some of the Bibi's personal
articles are preserved as sacred relics. Bibi Rup Kaur had a
son, Amar Singh, whose descendents are now living at
Dialpura Sodhian in Patiala district."
This proves that despite there being female descendents in
the Guru families they were not given GurGaddi. Thus, it
wasn't the absence of female descendents as the reason for
there not being female Gurus. [sic]
See
also this family tree (right) attributed to the Gurus:
But for Manvir Singh Khalsa, the fact that "it was a woman
who determined the Guruship from 5th-10th Guru's [sic]"
solves the problem. However, once again this only seeks to
compound the problem.
The request on the part of this woman leads to nothing
except another form of inequality in the shape of familial
preferential treatment, which leads to the rejection of all
other Sikhs thereafter. So much for the Sikh Sangat!
However, if the establishment of gender equality, as we have
shown thus far, is as fundamental a part of Sikhism as
claimed, the question arises as to why Guru Amar Das failed
to recognise this overarching importance and thus reject
said request?
Further to this, even if we accept, for arguments sake, that
Guruship would remain within the family from a particular
moment in time, the question of why the Gurus failed prior
to the implementation of this familial preference still
remains unanswered.
THEORY AND PRACTICE
None goes to heaven by mere talk, but emancipation is by
living the truth.
Guru Nanak
Founder of Sikhism
This failure also raises a serious question mark over their
self-appointed role as a 'Guru' of God.
But, firstly, the question that needs to be answered, and
one which we have already answered for Islam, is whether
this failure really matters in Sikhism? If it does not, then
we are guilty of imposing our paradigm over others
unjustifiably.
This, however, does not seem to be the case at all. To the
contrary, Islam's inviolable ethical principle of "practice
what you preach" is also cherished in Sikhism.
Prof. Avtar Singh addresses this issue in detail in his book
Ethics of the Sikhs. He quotes Guru Nanak as saying:
"None goes to heaven by mere talk but emancipation is by
living the truth."
He then asks what 'wisdom' is:
Can we call such person a wise man as does not live his
wisdom, in the sense that his actions do not reflect his
wisdom?
... Guru Nanak shows wisdom to be "a comprehensive point of
view as indicated in the actions of a man."
As for the concept of equality, he unequivocally states:
The attempt is made in Sikhism to institutionalise this
equality through various practices.
And since equality is connected to social ethics, he further
says:
In this analysis, by social ethics we mean the study of the
response of the man in [sic] social situation according to
certain moral principles.
It may be added that the social situation is a test in terms
of which it may be possible for us to evaluate whether a
person who professes humanistic outlook is faithful to
what he proclaims or he is merely a sentimentalist who is
dabbling in emotions but is devoid of action in the moral
sense.
(bold and underline ours)
Prof. A. Singh then ties the connection between theory and
practice with the three Khands, or "dimensions", as
he puts it:
In the second progressive stage the person is required to
seek tri-dimensional realization, three khands are
the gian khand, the saram khand and the
karam khand, which are respectively, the dimensions of
knowledge, aesthetics and action. All these three are to
be carried out to their ideal ends in an integrated manner.
It is a simultaneous process of gradual realization
in all respects. Action without knowledge and aesthetic
feeling would be blind just as knowledge and feeling
without being translated into action would be barren
sentimentalism - a painted ship on a painted sea.
Knowledge and feeling are to function in harmony with action.
But, in so far as the realization of the ideal of all these
three is concerned, they mark a sort of simultaneity.
(bold and underline ours)
And:
Lastly, the Guru has also stressed the need to practise
the good and not to merely talk about it. Guru Arjan Dev
condemns such a person when he says, "He instructs others
but practises not he himself, he knows not the quintessence
of the word,"
This unequivocally indicates that all that one learns to
be good, ought to be practised in ones acts. And
without such a practice in 'acts' other realization in terms
of knowledge or aesthetics cannot be called complete. That
would only be a sort of meaningless updes
(speech).
(bold and underline ours)
It is this sacred relationship between speech and action,
theory and practice, which leads the following people to
lament over those of their fellows who have fallen short in
this regard.
H. S. Bedi decries:
In Sikhism, women have equal rights and status with men. In
actual practice this
is not being followed.
(bold ours)
Dr Gurnam Kaur bemoans:
We can see from the life history of the awakened souls that
they are equally entitled to the spiritual and have equal
insight into the Bani. Being a male-dominated society
she is being deprived of so many spiritual rights at
present. She should be given equal rights because she is the
equal member of the Khalsa. There is a lot of difference
between the theory and practice.
(bold ours)
While Dr. I. J. Singh confidently asserts:
Sikhism promised an equal place to women. The predominant
society in India then and now does not; therefore, the
practice fell far short of the preaching. In many
matters however, Sikhism delivered. For instance, the Sikh
gurus were the first to raise their voices against sati,
a truly abominable custom. The Sikhs instituted Widow
remarriage. There is no activity in the Sikh religion
reserved exclusively for men, nor is there any which is
closed to them, at any time of their lives. If in a Sikh
service men and women sit on separate sides, it is based on
custom, culture and tradition, not canon. In Sikh history,
women have led armies into battle.
(bold ours)
The assertion that "there is no activity in the Sikh
religion reserved exclusively for men, nor is there any
which is closed to them, at any time of their lives" is, as
we have clearly demonstrated, untrue. Although the 10 Gurus
may have succeeded in instantiating all of the above, they
fell miserably short of the mark when it came to what is
arguably the most critical act in proving beyond reasonable
doubt that gender equality vis-á-vis Guruship was not
simply empty rhetoric; and that was to put it into practice themselves.
A BOYS ONLY CLUB
In total, the Guruship extended over a span of 200+ years.
With the volatile socio-political milieu, especially during
their more violent
militant period, one would expect
given the
expediency of the situation along with the long period of
time available for
education and reform, that the Gurus' combined efforts would
manage to produce at least one woman with the necessary all-round credentials worthy of
being selected for the role of Guruship.
According to Shanti Kaur Khalsa, however, this has already
been done. In this regard, she bravely throws out the
following challenge: "Now nobody dares say this to me; but I
look forward to the day when some Sikh will come up to me
and say: 'Well, if women were supposed to fight, how come
they didn't stand up and become one of the panj pyarai?'"
And follows it up with an answer:
Well after the death of Guru Gobind Singh, Mata Sundari [the
wife of Gobind Singh] led the Khalsa for 40 years. There was
no man great enough to stand and take the place of Guru Gobind Singh. For 40 years the Khalsa was led by a woman.
If not a Sikh, then allow a Muslim to take up this challenge
and say: in light of all the above, if Mata Sundari was so
great, why was Guruship not conferred unto her to finally
put the theory into practice? If that was not important
enough, why not at least acknowledge her greatness by
including her among the panj pyarai? It took over 200
years to produce a woman of Mata Sundari's calibre, and at
the most critical juncture in history, she was ignored.
Worse still, in relation to the question of leadership,
Gobind Singh overlooked his own wife for a quintet of
incompetent males, and in doing so brought enough doubt over
the issue of theory and practice vis-á-vis Guruship
for likeminded Sikhs and non-Sikhs to raise such seemingly
problematic questions as has preceded in this document.
Little wonder the SGGS states:
karameheen dhhan karai bina(n)thee kadh naanak aavai vaaree
||
The unfortunate soul-bride makes this prayer: O Nanak, when
will my turn come?
And we would contend that the failure on the part of the 10
Gurus created an historical precedence
that has directly resulted in the 'Singhnia' being sidelined and ignored ever
since.
Gurumustuk Singh grumbles thusly:
MAN - The Dominant
I always feel a little awkward when I hear Sikhs boasting
things like, "In Sikhism there is Gender Equality. Women can
do everything than men can". Of course this is the ideal and
the teachings of our Guru's, however in reality and practice
we have much to overcome to truly establish this so called
"Gender Equality".
Khalsa Women - Panj Piaray
Some people email me from time when I post a picture of the
Panj Piare in our sangat which most of the time has a woman.
The comments I get are like, "women
can't be in the Panj Piaray". I think that is
ridiculous since Khalsa has no gender and the "Panj Piaray"
is any 5 Sikhs of the Guru, not any 5 men of the Guru. This
is such a clear indication of how deep the issue of gender
inequality is in the Sikh communities and how we rationalize
things to suit ourselves and our own understanding.
Have you ever noticed that at Harmandir Sahib women are not
allowed to do Kirtan and do certain seva? It's like a boys
club. What kind of example does this show the world?
A "boys club" indeed! And we now know where this so-called
inequality most plausibly stems from: the 10 Gurus themselves.
Although Sikhism teaches that
"knowledge and feeling are to function in harmony with action",
as
Prof. A. Singh has delineated, this was certainly not
achieved by the Gurus. And since knowledge, as Prof. A.
Singh adds, "without being translated into action would be barren
sentimentalism - a painted ship on a painted sea," one is
pushed towards the conclusion that this knowledge Sikhs
today define as gender equality was, in respect to all the
Gurus, "meaningless updes (speech)".
We end this paper with a candid evaluation from Dr I.
J. Singh:
About the place of women in Sikh teaching, ask any Sikh, no
matter how uninformed or unconcerned he or she is about
Sikhism. The answer will be quick that they are equal, have
always been so, and that the Gurus so ordained it. But push
a little further. Ask any Sikh, no matter how liberated or
erudite in the intricacies of the faith, of the position of
women in Sikh society today and he or she will hem and haw,
and side step the issue with an agility that will do credit
to the wiliest politician at a hostile press conference.
Also cited by: D. Rosenberg and K. Scott,
Applying Use Case Driven Object Modeling With UML,
p.1.
Dr I. J. Singh (2004), What Sikhism says
about gender and sex?, (International Sikh
Conferences), p.3:
http://www.globalsikhstudies.net/articles/iscpapers/IJ
SINGH WHAT SIKHISM SAYS ABOUT GENDER AND SEX.doc
Sceptical Essays (1928), Eastern and Western
Ideals of Happiness.
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/lip+service
Rambler 14, P. 154. In Chalmers, Alexander: Full
text of "The British essayists: with prefaces,
historical and biographical". Retrieved 2009-04-15:
http://www.archive.org/stream/britishessayists16chal/britishessayists16chal_djvu.txt
A.-M. Mujahid (2004), Gems and Jewels: Wise
Sayings, Interesting Events & Moral Lessons from the
Islamic History, (Riyadh, Darussalam)
Dr I. J. Singh, op. cit., p.4.
Ibid., p.5.
P. Kaur (2008), Why were there no women gurus:
http://www.sikhnet.com/discussion/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=498#p2976
Ibid.
Gurpreet (2005), God said so and you must believe
it so:
http://www.sikhwomen.com/equality/womansrights.htm
SikhWomen.com (2005), Equality:
http://www.sikhwomen.com/equality/index.htm
Project Naad (2007), Challenges to Gender
Equality in Sikhism, p.5:
http://www.projectnaad.com/wp-content/uploads/leaflets/challenges_to_gender_equality_in_sikhism.pdf
Ibid.
Project Naad (2008), Empowerment of Women by
World Religions, p.1:
http://www.projectnaad.com/wp-content/uploads/leaflets/empowerment_of_women.pdf
History of the Sikhs (2003), Mai Bhago,
http://www.sikh-history.com/sikhhist/warriors/bhago.html
D. Singh (1999), Sikhism and Civilisation,
pp.107-108:
http://www.globalsikhstudies.net/pdf/sikhism&civil.pdf
B. Singh, Relocating Gender In Sikh History
Transformation, Meaning and Identity (Author: Doris
R. Jakobsh): A Critical Analysis, p.14:
http://www.globalsikhstudies.net/articles/Doris-Jakobsh
- Baldev Singh final.pdf
Ibid.
Dr I. J. Singh, op. cit., p.5.
Gurpreet, op. cit.
Dr I. J. Singh, op. cit., p.6.
Ibid., p.8.
Sikhi Wiki (2005), Guru Har Krishan:
http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Guru_Har_Krishan
Sikhi Wiki (2008), Guru Gobind Singh:
http://www.sikhiwiki.org/index.php/Guru_Gobind_Singh
Gurpreet, op. cit.
Ibid.
Why were there no women gurus (15-7-2008):
http://www.sikhnet.com/discussion/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=498&start=0#p2978
Ibid. (17-7-2008):
http://www.sikhnet.com/discussion/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=498&start=10#p3140
Sikh Information (2005), Sikh Guru Family Tree:
http://www.info-sikh.com/PageF1.html
Fn.1: Adi Granth, Var of Majh, Sloka M. 1 (2-7),
p.141.
Ibid., p.99.
A. Singh (1996), Ethics of the Sikhs, (New
Delhi, Punjabi University, Patiala), p.87.
Ibid., p.164.
Ibid., p.146.
Ibid., p.228.
Fn. 2: Adi Granth, Asa M.5, p.380. Updes kare ap
na kamave tate sabad na pachana.
Ibid., p.245.
(Edited) H. S. Bedī (2001),
The Sikhs in the new century, (Khalsa
College, 2001), p.102.
Dr G. Kaur (2004), Guru Granth Sahib and the
Gender Equations, (International Sikh
Conferences), pg.21:
http://www.globalsikhstudies.net/articles/iscpapers/Gurnam_KaurGGS
&Gender Equation.doc
Dr I. J. Singh, op. cit., p.8:
S. K. Khalsa (date: unknown), The Singhnia of
Guru Gobind Singh, (Espanola, New Mexico), time
slice: 4:22-4:57:
http://www.mrsikhnet.com/index.php/2007/08/16/the-singhnia-sikh-women-of-guru-gobind-singh/
And:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoHTYhKw7r4&feature=player_embedded
http://www.sikhitothemax.com/Page.asp?ShabadID=3533
G. Singh (2006), Women in Sikhism: Gender
Inequality?:
http://www.mrsikhnet.com/index.php/2006/11/27/women-in-sikhism-gender-inequality/
G. Singh (2005), Panj Piaray at Baisakhi:
http://www.mrsikhnet.com/index.php/2005/06/14/111879651275674345/
Dr I. J. Singh, op. cit., p.1.
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